I have always said I don’t want to live with regrets.
Do I? Possibly. Is there things I would want to change? Absolutely. We wouldn’t be human if we didn’t make mistakes. The key point we need to ask ourselves is, have we learned and grown from those mistakes?
There is things I have done I am not proud of, things I may have said or done, or reacted a certain way.
That I am sure if I was to be looking back I would change. But if I didn’t do what I did, would I have learned the same lesson? Would I have grown as a person? Who knows.
Is there things I would have done more of? Yes!
I would have told members of my family I loved them more. I would have called passed loved ones more. I would have started fitness earlier so I was closer to my goal. I wouldn’t have let my self go so far backwards when I was grieving.
These are just a few. But would I have? If I didn’t go through what I did, if I didn’t behave the way I did, would I have learned to hold my loved ones closer? Would I make more attempts to talk to them more often? Would I work as hard in the gym? Would I work as hard on my nutrition? Would I have learned all I have learnt? Would I have grown as a person?
Don’t get me wrong if I could turn back time to bring my loved ones back I would. But I can’t. So all I can do, is take the lessons I have learned, all I can do is be a better person, live life for me and them.
Live with no regrets. Learn from your mistakes. Become the best person you know you can be!
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